"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hair is going blonde >;/

Lost

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I go to the beach a LOT(cuz i surf). and usually for long periods of time(5 hours).........
anyways.. my hair is starting to go blonde.....
first it was the hairs on my arm.. ALL of them are blonde now.
Then the hair on my head... Ive been getting it cut every month or so.. but it still gets so much sun that a lot of it gets sorta blonde. some of it is completely blonde. I like my dark hair(brown) i dont want the blonde hair :/.
Even on my eyebrows their going blonde.. which is ****ed up cuz thats permanent isnt it?

What should i do? Ive heard theirs like sunblock for your hair lol?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tango-Kid

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You know, pal... 99% of people gots dark hair. You should be lucky to have blonde hair!

If you don´t want your hair to get blonder, wear a hat. I wear the traditional hat when I´m on the beach... not to prevent my hair becoming blonde, but to prevent headache. People say I look stupid with the hat but I don´t care :D

I know some girls use normal UV protection for their eyebrows with high UV-X to prevent from sunburn. Maybe help for you too?
 

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How can your hair be going blonde?

I have black hair and sure would like for it to be lighter.

Is it really just the sun or what is it cos I want to do it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lost

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im in the sun 6 hours everyday surfing.....

anyways i heard someone say to wear a hat... even tho i dont like em, but the only problem is, how the hell is it suupposed to stay on while im surfing???
 

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Hair goes blonde, not because of excessive sunlight but because of salt in the ocean.

We surf all the time and its common to see brown hair go blonde over a year or so.

Generally the color goes back to its origal state when surfing is stopped, again this takes time.

I hope you find this helpful.
 

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It's not permanent. It will go back to a darker color when you head back to school and cannot spend the same time in the water.

I have dark brown hair but a ton of it has become blond recently from surfing.
 

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Originally posted by Lost
im in the sun 6 hours everyday surfing.....

anyways i heard someone say to wear a hat... even tho i dont like em, but the only problem is, how the hell is it suupposed to stay on while im surfing???
Strap it to your head with duct tape. Right under the chin. Then it wont come off.

Alternatively, just enjoy the fact that you dont look like 99% of men out there. people actually PAY to have their hair have strips of blonde in it.

If you really have that much of a problem with it, a bandana would be better than a hat [for staying on purposes]. I used to do some surfing and wore it to avoid headaches, but it always stayed on. Just tie it tight.
 
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