"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hair is going blonde >;/

Lost

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I go to the beach a LOT(cuz i surf). and usually for long periods of time(5 hours).........
anyways.. my hair is starting to go blonde.....
first it was the hairs on my arm.. ALL of them are blonde now.
Then the hair on my head... Ive been getting it cut every month or so.. but it still gets so much sun that a lot of it gets sorta blonde. some of it is completely blonde. I like my dark hair(brown) i dont want the blonde hair :/.
Even on my eyebrows their going blonde.. which is ****ed up cuz thats permanent isnt it?

What should i do? Ive heard theirs like sunblock for your hair lol?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tango-Kid

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You know, pal... 99% of people gots dark hair. You should be lucky to have blonde hair!

If you don´t want your hair to get blonder, wear a hat. I wear the traditional hat when I´m on the beach... not to prevent my hair becoming blonde, but to prevent headache. People say I look stupid with the hat but I don´t care :D

I know some girls use normal UV protection for their eyebrows with high UV-X to prevent from sunburn. Maybe help for you too?
 

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How can your hair be going blonde?

I have black hair and sure would like for it to be lighter.

Is it really just the sun or what is it cos I want to do it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lost

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im in the sun 6 hours everyday surfing.....

anyways i heard someone say to wear a hat... even tho i dont like em, but the only problem is, how the hell is it suupposed to stay on while im surfing???
 

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Hair goes blonde, not because of excessive sunlight but because of salt in the ocean.

We surf all the time and its common to see brown hair go blonde over a year or so.

Generally the color goes back to its origal state when surfing is stopped, again this takes time.

I hope you find this helpful.
 

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It's not permanent. It will go back to a darker color when you head back to school and cannot spend the same time in the water.

I have dark brown hair but a ton of it has become blond recently from surfing.
 

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Originally posted by Lost
im in the sun 6 hours everyday surfing.....

anyways i heard someone say to wear a hat... even tho i dont like em, but the only problem is, how the hell is it suupposed to stay on while im surfing???
Strap it to your head with duct tape. Right under the chin. Then it wont come off.

Alternatively, just enjoy the fact that you dont look like 99% of men out there. people actually PAY to have their hair have strips of blonde in it.

If you really have that much of a problem with it, a bandana would be better than a hat [for staying on purposes]. I used to do some surfing and wore it to avoid headaches, but it always stayed on. Just tie it tight.
 
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