"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hair flick in the street, IOI or over-analyzing

KingKongSchlong

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Hi, so I walked down the road just taking in the nice weather and saw this beautiful girl walking across the road and I just saw an amazing ass-in-jeans that I was pretty much staring straight onto.

And then I saw this blonde hottie walking towards me in the edge of my eyes, and I moved my look towards her and she flicks her hair, not with her hands or anything just with her face.

If I wasn't such a humongous ***** I would have opened her then and there, but that was just not a possibility in the state I was.

I mean, I couldn't think of it as anything other than an IOI, but maybe it's just me? If you were to encounter a similar situation what would you do if you weren't able to open anyone anywhere?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheException

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Guess youll never know. IOI's dont mean sh1t unless you act upon them. You recognized it....so next logical step = start conversation. Too late to worry or think about it now.....just ACT next time.
 

PlayHer Man

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Here is how it works:

When you see a woman you want to f*ck.. you approach her. She will either accept you or reject you. Its really that simple.

Maybe I'm a little numb now because of my years of cold approaches.. but I really don't "think" at all. I just start talking to her. I say whatever the f*ck I feel like saying:

"Nice day out"

"I like your shirt"

"You're cute as hell"

"Where are you rushing to?"

"How's it going?"

"Hey, whats your name?"


Nothing fancy. I just don't care. She will either be responsive or not.. its her choice. I'm not going to try to manipulate her into being "attracted". Too much work. I'm looking for FUN not work. I can work at my day job. :yes:

The best advice I can give is make it fun for YOU. If you're having fun.. she will sense the positive energy and be more interested.
 
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