"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hair flick in the street, IOI or over-analyzing

KingKongSchlong

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Hi, so I walked down the road just taking in the nice weather and saw this beautiful girl walking across the road and I just saw an amazing ass-in-jeans that I was pretty much staring straight onto.

And then I saw this blonde hottie walking towards me in the edge of my eyes, and I moved my look towards her and she flicks her hair, not with her hands or anything just with her face.

If I wasn't such a humongous ***** I would have opened her then and there, but that was just not a possibility in the state I was.

I mean, I couldn't think of it as anything other than an IOI, but maybe it's just me? If you were to encounter a similar situation what would you do if you weren't able to open anyone anywhere?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Guess youll never know. IOI's dont mean sh1t unless you act upon them. You recognized it....so next logical step = start conversation. Too late to worry or think about it now.....just ACT next time.
 

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Here is how it works:

When you see a woman you want to f*ck.. you approach her. She will either accept you or reject you. Its really that simple.

Maybe I'm a little numb now because of my years of cold approaches.. but I really don't "think" at all. I just start talking to her. I say whatever the f*ck I feel like saying:

"Nice day out"

"I like your shirt"

"You're cute as hell"

"Where are you rushing to?"

"How's it going?"

"Hey, whats your name?"


Nothing fancy. I just don't care. She will either be responsive or not.. its her choice. I'm not going to try to manipulate her into being "attracted". Too much work. I'm looking for FUN not work. I can work at my day job. :yes:

The best advice I can give is make it fun for YOU. If you're having fun.. she will sense the positive energy and be more interested.
 
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