PuertoRican_Lover
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
A thing 'is' what it 'is'! Enough said!Originally posted by JustDoItAlways
In the last six months, half of the threads have been about YOU calling chicks hoes just because they have sex.
Some chicks are nasty yes. But YOU think any woman with a vagina is nasty and a hoe.
Are you a 42 year old virgin that hates sex or not.
A thing is not predicated on who I am or what I say or do! It is what it is!Originally posted by JustDoItAlways
Are you a 42 virgin that hates sex or not?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
TrueVirgins" don't pursue men - sorry dude that is in my bible of 'pursuing woman 101'.
"Forgive me father, for I have sinned!"Originally posted by JustDoItAlways
A 42 year old virgin has 1900+ posts on a board which is about getting women.
That is unforgivable.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Straighten up and I'll back off.Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
"Forgive me father, for I have sinned!"
(PR_L exclaims while being nailed to the cross for excessive posting on SoSuave)
"Forgive them, for they know not what they do!"
(PR_L exclaims as the chanting DJ's who are against him cry out for his cruciifixion) "Ban him", "Ban him", "Ban him" "For being against hors and fags". "He is a horogynist and fagphobe" they shout!!
"I thirst!" (PR_L whispers in defeat and exhaustion)
I throw hors away like a used tissue, with no remorse and without consequence!Originally posted by JustDoItAlways
Are you a 42 virgin that hates sex or not?
All knowledge is free – the cost is the effort put forth in attaining the knowledge! My bible is the same cost as the ‘holy one” – free! Can there be a charge for truth?Originally posted by tactic
PRL,
How much for your bible?![]()
.Originally posted by JustDoItAlways
PRL's bible costs about 42 years of no sex. Very cheap.
It is not in the nature of a woman to pursue a man or else there will be a clash if there are two aggressors. God knew what he was doing!!! Hos today are trying to be like men, that is why there is such a thunderous clash in relationships today! There are exceptions – if a woman sees that a man is very shy then she’ll prompt the conversation! The man has to take it from there.Originally posted by dillin
True
Whats your oppinion on girls who do pursue men?
Homey, give me more credit than that – only 90%Originally posted by MetalFortress
Whether he's a virgin or not, he still knows more than 90% of the posters here. Others spout off crappy political correctness - he speaks honestly.
Only one – why would I need another? I want all the glory!!!!Originally posted by JustDoItAlways
PRL, how many names do you have registered here.
You are such in error, oniwannakonobe! A women’s nature is not designed for the pursuit – they are genetically designed to be the receptors of our advancements! Men are the prongs and women are the receptacles – any other way and you will not have electricity!Originally posted by JustDoItAlways
15 year old virgins don't pursue men?
Sorry wrong.
Women's main goal in life, virgin or not, is to attract and pursue men.
The actual answer to your question is:
Women pursue men when:
1. They are very attracted to that man; or,
2. They have some ulterior motive.
Your job as a DJ is to figure out which one of those motives is true, not just call her a hoe automatically.
Why should I straighten up, it is your thinking that is crooked! Heal thyself!!!Originally posted by JustDoItAlways
Straighten up and I'll back off.
Go back to your every female is a hoe so stay away from them and I won't quit till I or you is gone.
It makes sense, but what is your reasoning behind this?Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
"Virgins" don't pursue men - sorry dude that is in my bible of 'pursuing woman 101'.
All ' truth' is for good and to help!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.