"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I been after this hot chick for a month and all she does is cancel and postpone dates, so what do i do? i swallow my stupid fears and say to myself, **** this, she is the one who has to prove me shes worthy of me, so i stop all contact with her, no calls, no messenger, no nothing, and guess what?

Shes been calling me like crazy for the past 3 days, i am letting her suffer a bit more.:D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'd talk to her sooner than later because she will eventually stop. A few days is enough. Tell her that you'll see her but she has to tell you 3 reasons why she will be fun to you.
 
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Next her. If you let her back, she'll just do it again.

Trust me, been there, done that.
 
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Sounds like you dissapeared at exactly the right time. How many days did you cut all contact before she started calling you? I'm with Joe Dirt. Resume talking with her before she gives up and see what you can get out of her.
 
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Originally posted by ketostix
Sounds like you dissapeared at exactly the right time. How many days did you cut all contact before she started calling you? I'm with Joe Dirt. Resume talking with her before she gives up and see what you can get out of her.
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It only took 3 days, i just called her and told her " hey, i am calling back, is there an emergency over there or what?" and shes like "no, its just that you havent called me", so i go "look, my time is too valuable, and i dont like to play ping pong, if you want something its going to be my way or don't waste my time" so shes like " i want to see you" and i am like, " i am busy today and tomorrow, i will see you sunday and you better make me happy"

I love this ****!!!!!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Damm 3 days and she flipped. Usually a guy has to dissapear for a week or so and then resume contact acting nonchalant asking again to get results. Cool.
 
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Sweet. I think you played this perfectly by letting her know it's YOUR reality. Let us know how this plays out.
 
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Yupp I'm keen to find out how this goes. Let us know bro.
 
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haha got her on the finger now :D nice work matey ! :cheer:
 
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Im having the same problem with this one chick. I'm gonna do the same starting now.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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