"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I been after this hot chick for a month and all she does is cancel and postpone dates, so what do i do? i swallow my stupid fears and say to myself, **** this, she is the one who has to prove me shes worthy of me, so i stop all contact with her, no calls, no messenger, no nothing, and guess what?

Shes been calling me like crazy for the past 3 days, i am letting her suffer a bit more.:D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'd talk to her sooner than later because she will eventually stop. A few days is enough. Tell her that you'll see her but she has to tell you 3 reasons why she will be fun to you.
 
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Next her. If you let her back, she'll just do it again.

Trust me, been there, done that.
 
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Sounds like you dissapeared at exactly the right time. How many days did you cut all contact before she started calling you? I'm with Joe Dirt. Resume talking with her before she gives up and see what you can get out of her.
 
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Originally posted by ketostix
Sounds like you dissapeared at exactly the right time. How many days did you cut all contact before she started calling you? I'm with Joe Dirt. Resume talking with her before she gives up and see what you can get out of her.
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It only took 3 days, i just called her and told her " hey, i am calling back, is there an emergency over there or what?" and shes like "no, its just that you havent called me", so i go "look, my time is too valuable, and i dont like to play ping pong, if you want something its going to be my way or don't waste my time" so shes like " i want to see you" and i am like, " i am busy today and tomorrow, i will see you sunday and you better make me happy"

I love this ****!!!!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Damm 3 days and she flipped. Usually a guy has to dissapear for a week or so and then resume contact acting nonchalant asking again to get results. Cool.
 
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Sweet. I think you played this perfectly by letting her know it's YOUR reality. Let us know how this plays out.
 
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Yupp I'm keen to find out how this goes. Let us know bro.
 
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haha got her on the finger now :D nice work matey ! :cheer:
 
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Im having the same problem with this one chick. I'm gonna do the same starting now.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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