brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
for doing 84 in a 55, hopefully they dont suspend my lisence, that stupid ticket is gonna be high as i dunno what. just thought i'd share
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
hahahaha, my first ticket
- Thread starter brenbaus
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Keep us posted. 
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
At least you are less than 30 mph over the limit. Getting a lawyer is usually worth the money.
Or, you could try to negotiate the fine down yourself. My ex-wife got a $400 speeding ticket in Butts county south of Atlanta on 75. When we told them we did not have the money, they threatened her with probation, but then reduced the fine by half so that we could pay it. The atmosphere was similar to buying a used car. The guy finally said, "Could you pay your fine today, if it were just $200?"
Or, you could try to negotiate the fine down yourself. My ex-wife got a $400 speeding ticket in Butts county south of Atlanta on 75. When we told them we did not have the money, they threatened her with probation, but then reduced the fine by half so that we could pay it. The atmosphere was similar to buying a used car. The guy finally said, "Could you pay your fine today, if it were just $200?"
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
actually i was doing 86, but because it was my first violation the cop cut me a break and took it down to 84, otherwise i'd be in jail right now. i'm just gonna pay the fine and be done with it, i cant afford a lawyer, and i'm not gonna make excuses for driving as fast as i was
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
fwiw, I got a ticket in Florida in 2000 and bought a $99 attorney, who got my fine reduced by $100, which paid for his fee, and I also did not have to show up in court, had no points on my license, and did not have to go to traffic school.
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
i dont have to show in court if i pay the fine before ocotber 23rd, so i'll see how things go