"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Brokeback Larry

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i just left this message:

*this girl missed my call yesterday but called right back. so didn't take it too heart.

"Hey Sexy Voice mail Lady, its been nice getting to talk to you these past few days but if you hear from Amanda let her know this very cool dude called."

maybe could have added, if not then how bout me and you get coffee tomorrow =)

she called right back within the hour with an excuse so i made it clear if she doesn't ship up that voice mail lady will take her place!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I-tallionStallion

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Two things...one...how many times did you get her voicemail and not her the last few days. That sounds kind of uh...uncomfortable sounding. Quite frankly i def wouldn't have called you back if i was a chick.

second...i don't think you needed to add it cause you had her on the phone. Hopefully you asked her to coffee then.
 

sam3083

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Nice C+F.

The fact that the girl called him back almost straight away shows how effective it was for at the very least him.

good stuff
 
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