"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Brokeback Larry

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i just left this message:

*this girl missed my call yesterday but called right back. so didn't take it too heart.

"Hey Sexy Voice mail Lady, its been nice getting to talk to you these past few days but if you hear from Amanda let her know this very cool dude called."

maybe could have added, if not then how bout me and you get coffee tomorrow =)

she called right back within the hour with an excuse so i made it clear if she doesn't ship up that voice mail lady will take her place!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I-tallionStallion

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Two things...one...how many times did you get her voicemail and not her the last few days. That sounds kind of uh...uncomfortable sounding. Quite frankly i def wouldn't have called you back if i was a chick.

second...i don't think you needed to add it cause you had her on the phone. Hopefully you asked her to coffee then.
 
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sam3083

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Nice C+F.

The fact that the girl called him back almost straight away shows how effective it was for at the very least him.

good stuff
 
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