"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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haha wow good night overall still drunk

judoguy

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so me and my boys rented a party bus to take to the city... all got ****faced !! had two private strippers giving out lap dances and using dildo's on each other. total bro night, exactly what I needed !

anyway so the girl from POF.com calls me. after she cancelled on me because she had a party to go tonight... it was obvious but she just told me she was "busy".

she called me at 10 12 pm... no awnser

i texted her at 10 19 and said " im hammered. tty tommorow"

she texted back at 10 25 pm and said " lets talk now"

i texted her at 10 45 pm and said " i want to but i cant"

she texted me back at 1049 pm and said " why cant you"

she texted again at 1057 pm and said " are you with a girl?'

no awnser....

she called again at 11 32 pm and i didnt awnser

i called her back at 125 am and was C+F for 20 minutes she was loving it and said i had to go to bed and bounced. she questioned me on where i have been for 3 days and why we havent talked etc. etc.

I simply told her i was busy and made fun of her. she called me out saying that I was in love with her before this, but i didnt give a **** because I was drunk and started asking about if her friends were hot hahahah

the funny part was that she ate this up ! like she was laughing and loving it. She tried to make me jealous by talking with one of her guy friends while on the phone with me ... and i told her to tell him I said hi ! she was definitely shocked because my game goes up by a factor of 10 when I am drunk !

talked to her for about 20 minutes... cut her off mid story and told her i was going to bed. she was awestruck ! hahaha
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So I called her and was like hey how are you

me:I am going to be available friday if you wanna come up and let me be your tour guide for my school....

her: yea i want too but idk if friday works, how about sunday?

me: I can do it sunday after 12 pm....but when will you know? i need to know soon so I can make plans

her: I will know tommorow for sure

me: ok just gimme a call or text me when you find out,

her: ok

me: talk to you then


20 mins later...

text from her " hey sunday is best for me. does that work for you?

me: yea that is fine. I'll see you then

You said the meetup was Sunday. What are you talking about? Today is now Saturday. So she went out tonight and she didn't cancel for Friday. She re-scheduled with you for Sunday.

Who cares what she texted. She's trying to reel you in. "I'm really starting like you alot" Yeah OK. She's playing mind games with you.

I'd be a wise a$$ and tell her "Awww..Yeah? That's what she said! I will NEVER erase that text off my phone EVER!" Facebook "likes" are soo cute too! Really!

And you’re ‘drunk’, but not drunk enough to spell your password.
 

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dam dude yea I was pretty hammered last night. I was not like incoherent but I threw up in my sink once and was stumbling

I was referring to the original plans we had of Friday like 2 weeks ago, then she started saying she wasnt sure if she could do it Friday, then it turned into a counter offer of Sunday.

I didnt even respond to her text. I just went to bed.
 
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