"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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haha, this is too funny!

Crazy Asian

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taken form another forum.
it's a girl:

So my best friend is this guy and he's the typical player, weed smoker, rude and obnoxious guy. He is sort of a younger version of Stifler, you know? A typical ***hole. So anyway...I've been crushing on him lately, just a little, not over the top crush. And he keeps saying things like, "Oh Stephanie, I am so not attracted to you" all the time, and it hurts me. For example, today I suggested that we go to the movies tomorrow afterschool. Then he said, "Steph, that's not how I roll. I only go out with one girl if I'm after her for something. Sorry, but if I went out with you I'd be killing my buzz". And I know, he is a jerk. But I just don't know what to do. I don't understand why he isn't attracted to me because he is literally attracted to every girl on the planet, and guys tend to like me, but not him. Please please someone help me!

Its weird. The more he seems to "reject" me the more I seem to like him. It's strange in that way. I told him a few minutes ago that I need to keep my distance from him, because he manages to make me feel bad about myself. He said, "ok, I think that might be a good idea".
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Okay fess up, we know that jerk is from this site, show yourself!
good job though
 

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hahaha, that girl sounds like she is 15. Possibly up to or around 24.

She says he's such an *******, yet she wants him. She calls him a player, yet he only dates one girl at a time. He's straight up, and honest, yet he is a jerk.

I love a woman's mentality.
 

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Poor girl. She's about to be played so hard! she deserves whatever she gonna get, and it'll be a good lesson for her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DonGorgon

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The most important part of that to note is that she claims he is her "best friend" and just happens to want to f him...LOL I keep warning people about this "friends" thing, its just a convenient excuse that allows women to keep men around close enough to f at any time.

Never every believe a woman when she says "oh he s just my friend" cause she either f'ed him already of she will f him soon enough...
 
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