"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Haha, think I might've gotten stood up.

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Well there's this girl in my class and she was interested in hanging out and we even made a time and a place. She gave me her number, even put it in and said to call her around the time, but apparently the number didn't save for some reason. So I go to the place at around the time(The time was 12:00, I got there at around 12:08) and I don't see her there. I look around for her for a little while more and I'm just like screw it and get lunch myself. At the end of the day, I just forgot about her and just started approaching other girls, even getting some number closes. Just pretty weird that girl who was interested in meeting flaked. She probably thought I was disinterested or something since I didn't call.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It happens. Good to see you put your time to good use after she flaked. Now, start calling some of those numbers.
 
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lol wouldn't make much sense to call them since I'm away from campus from labor day, but yeah, I definitely will on Tuesday though. It's just weird that a girl who was interested enough to put her number in my phone, wouldn't show up. I'm definitely gonna act less interested when I see her in class again on Tuesday.
 
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When you got this girl's number,what was the conversation like?
What were you talking about when you asked her for her number?
 
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Igetit! said:
When you got this girl's number,what was the conversation like?
What were you talking about when you asked her for her number?
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I don't really remember, but I remember she was all for it when I asked her if she wanted to meet up. She showed more interest in it than I did.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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