"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Haha, think I might've gotten stood up.

ElStud

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Well there's this girl in my class and she was interested in hanging out and we even made a time and a place. She gave me her number, even put it in and said to call her around the time, but apparently the number didn't save for some reason. So I go to the place at around the time(The time was 12:00, I got there at around 12:08) and I don't see her there. I look around for her for a little while more and I'm just like screw it and get lunch myself. At the end of the day, I just forgot about her and just started approaching other girls, even getting some number closes. Just pretty weird that girl who was interested in meeting flaked. She probably thought I was disinterested or something since I didn't call.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It happens. Good to see you put your time to good use after she flaked. Now, start calling some of those numbers.
 

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lol wouldn't make much sense to call them since I'm away from campus from labor day, but yeah, I definitely will on Tuesday though. It's just weird that a girl who was interested enough to put her number in my phone, wouldn't show up. I'm definitely gonna act less interested when I see her in class again on Tuesday.
 

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When you got this girl's number,what was the conversation like?
What were you talking about when you asked her for her number?
 

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Igetit! said:
When you got this girl's number,what was the conversation like?
What were you talking about when you asked her for her number?
I don't really remember, but I remember she was all for it when I asked her if she wanted to meet up. She showed more interest in it than I did.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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