"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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haha mmm ok heres a problem

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im invited to one of my gfs friends gurly party thing.. and wel be playing spin the bottle and 7th heaven and that ****.. and me and my gf are prety seriouse.. so i was like na im not gonna play. so i dont cause all this **** if i huk up with another girl or whatever... but in the dj bible it mentions that non clingy men dont get jeleouse of there gf or whatever huks up with another guy.. real men or whatever wont get jelouse and all they care about is being with this chick and whatever they do with other people is there business..... but comon its kinda harder than that!! watching my gf huk up with another guy right in front of me... and if i go and huk up with another chik itl just dig me into a deeper hole!!! lolz any advice would be cool. peace

(but im guessing she probably wont want to play.. but its still a cool thing to talk about =D)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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if you're "pretty serious" then you shouldn't be playing a game like that. If your gf wants to play it then she's a hor and you should start treating her like the hor she is.
 

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LOL yea i guess thats right...
 

Touchout

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wait...your in a serious relationship...but your going to a party where people will be playing spin the bottle?? :rolleyes:

How old are you dude? **** it, your too young for a serious relationship, go have fun hooking up with random girls. If your gf questions you just be like, "it's just a game..."
 

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If she plays, play along. If she doesn't, sit out and go find a nearby bush to shag her in.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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