"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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haha mmm ok heres a problem

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im invited to one of my gfs friends gurly party thing.. and wel be playing spin the bottle and 7th heaven and that ****.. and me and my gf are prety seriouse.. so i was like na im not gonna play. so i dont cause all this **** if i huk up with another girl or whatever... but in the dj bible it mentions that non clingy men dont get jeleouse of there gf or whatever huks up with another guy.. real men or whatever wont get jelouse and all they care about is being with this chick and whatever they do with other people is there business..... but comon its kinda harder than that!! watching my gf huk up with another guy right in front of me... and if i go and huk up with another chik itl just dig me into a deeper hole!!! lolz any advice would be cool. peace

(but im guessing she probably wont want to play.. but its still a cool thing to talk about =D)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Obsidian

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if you're "pretty serious" then you shouldn't be playing a game like that. If your gf wants to play it then she's a hor and you should start treating her like the hor she is.
 

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LOL yea i guess thats right...
 

Touchout

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wait...your in a serious relationship...but your going to a party where people will be playing spin the bottle?? :rolleyes:

How old are you dude? **** it, your too young for a serious relationship, go have fun hooking up with random girls. If your gf questions you just be like, "it's just a game..."
 

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If she plays, play along. If she doesn't, sit out and go find a nearby bush to shag her in.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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