"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Haha, If this isn't "CREEPY", "WEIRD" and "BITTER" I dont know what is.

HeyPachuco!

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WOW, I'm not sure if this girl miscommunicated my text here, but this doesnt sound legit. In no way was I disrespecting her or anything, please refrain from saying I was being a "JERK" because theres no way in hell this could come over as JERKY, as I didnt even know I was doing C+F which wasnt even intended, I just thought this was a "getting-to-know" Text convo, WTF !!

HeyPachuco: Hey, XXXX, you okay?

Girl: Hi!, yeah I'm not bad, U?

HeyPachuco: LOL I'm sweet, what time do you call this? XXXX, normal girls are in bed by this time :p

Girl: I know, I'm a naughty girl, so spank me! I dont have a bed time, cus I dont have work 2moro, whats your excuse lol :p

HeyPachuco: Aha behave XXXX, I think I'd have to take up that offer, I'll let you off since you havent got work tho lol, I'm still hungover, lame excuse! x

Girl: *This is where it starts to get "CREEPY" *Whats so funny about the fact that im not working this week???? absolutely nothing and who gave u permission to call me XXXX ??? no1. Why are u hung over what did u do?

HeyPachuco: Apparently you said you didnt have work TODAY XXX! but now it seems to be all week, are you telling porkies? lol, I was so hungover the other night because I was drinking :O, Do you know why you suckkkk! XXX? :p x

Girl: U need to learn to read ur texts better ... scroll dwn and read. Ur the one thats doing the assuming not me, either u want the truth from me or u can fvck off with lies? upto u. Why would i want to know why i suck???? dn't be a ****!

*By now, she has a Status about me, moicking my username and talking about my favourites and what I like to watch on the movies section*

HeyPachuco: Aaha, HUH,wot? You've totally lost me?, :s a whole status dedicated to me? WOW dude, someones grumpy, Lol, Bye XXXX, x

Girl: so now ur running away like a pvssy.... if your gonna disrespect me stand ur ****ing ground like a soldier. I can tell u like my status... its cos ur SPECIAL.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: HUH,wtf?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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chance-

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shes fukin around with ya. another head case stay away man. hate immature girls like that.
 

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HeyPachuco! said:
Girl: so now ur running away like a pvssy.... if your gonna disrespect me stand ur ****ing ground like a soldier. I can tell u like my status... its cos ur SPECIAL.
I believe she is pulling a combo on you: immature + wanting your attention. I wouldn't waste my time unless she has some quality that makes you feel the need to bang. Just next her and then you won't have to waste your time dealing with the physiological confusion.

If interested though, consider: I feel like she responded to you with a "pushing your respect boundary" feeling way too early. You do need to spank the sh!t out of her. In fact, tell her she has an attitude and tell her you are going to spank her indeed. Then set up a place and time. :D
 

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HeyPachuco! said:
Girl: *This is where it starts to get "CREEPY" *Whats so funny about the fact that im not working this week???? absolutely nothing and who gave u permission to call me XXXX ??? no1. Why are u hung over what did u do?
This is where you should've stopped replying.
 

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She sounds like she's 14. And for a second there I thought I was listening to 2 women gossiping with all the LOLs and faces.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You didn't build up your value. Your attempt at C+F rapport came across as try-hard. DHV before you Qualify.
 

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OK maybe i read it wrong, but it seems like some of the things you said didn't really make sense either.
 

CaptainJ

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You should have called her out more, rather than walking on egg shells with all the XXX's, smilies and LOLs. She is a headcase though, NEXT.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HeyPachuco!

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This is a 25 yr. OLD WOMAN!

So maybe shes trying to take advantage of that slight age difference I don't know. The XXX's is where I'm censoring her name. Who ever said I didn't add VALUE to the conversation is a straight up douche and a mystery nuthugger for pete's sake.

And the "Laugh.Out.Louds" and smiley faces is just a habit, I usually use it due the first stages of rapport, but dont continue it afterwards, just a comfort thing I'm use to.

Its a shame, cos she was cute, BUT yh she's got some hidden bitter agenda,No problem nexting her, I just find this a little weird that she straight up said some of the things she said, Usually I would of flamed things like this and continued it, but even after I said BYE, she still consisted to heckle me.

Red Flag.
 
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