"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Haha, If this isn't "CREEPY", "WEIRD" and "BITTER" I dont know what is.

HeyPachuco!

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WOW, I'm not sure if this girl miscommunicated my text here, but this doesnt sound legit. In no way was I disrespecting her or anything, please refrain from saying I was being a "JERK" because theres no way in hell this could come over as JERKY, as I didnt even know I was doing C+F which wasnt even intended, I just thought this was a "getting-to-know" Text convo, WTF !!

HeyPachuco: Hey, XXXX, you okay?

Girl: Hi!, yeah I'm not bad, U?

HeyPachuco: LOL I'm sweet, what time do you call this? XXXX, normal girls are in bed by this time :p

Girl: I know, I'm a naughty girl, so spank me! I dont have a bed time, cus I dont have work 2moro, whats your excuse lol :p

HeyPachuco: Aha behave XXXX, I think I'd have to take up that offer, I'll let you off since you havent got work tho lol, I'm still hungover, lame excuse! x

Girl: *This is where it starts to get "CREEPY" *Whats so funny about the fact that im not working this week???? absolutely nothing and who gave u permission to call me XXXX ??? no1. Why are u hung over what did u do?

HeyPachuco: Apparently you said you didnt have work TODAY XXX! but now it seems to be all week, are you telling porkies? lol, I was so hungover the other night because I was drinking :O, Do you know why you suckkkk! XXX? :p x

Girl: U need to learn to read ur texts better ... scroll dwn and read. Ur the one thats doing the assuming not me, either u want the truth from me or u can fvck off with lies? upto u. Why would i want to know why i suck???? dn't be a ****!

*By now, she has a Status about me, moicking my username and talking about my favourites and what I like to watch on the movies section*

HeyPachuco: Aaha, HUH,wot? You've totally lost me?, :s a whole status dedicated to me? WOW dude, someones grumpy, Lol, Bye XXXX, x

Girl: so now ur running away like a pvssy.... if your gonna disrespect me stand ur ****ing ground like a soldier. I can tell u like my status... its cos ur SPECIAL.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: HUH,wtf?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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shes fukin around with ya. another head case stay away man. hate immature girls like that.
 

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HeyPachuco! said:
Girl: so now ur running away like a pvssy.... if your gonna disrespect me stand ur ****ing ground like a soldier. I can tell u like my status... its cos ur SPECIAL.
I believe she is pulling a combo on you: immature + wanting your attention. I wouldn't waste my time unless she has some quality that makes you feel the need to bang. Just next her and then you won't have to waste your time dealing with the physiological confusion.

If interested though, consider: I feel like she responded to you with a "pushing your respect boundary" feeling way too early. You do need to spank the sh!t out of her. In fact, tell her she has an attitude and tell her you are going to spank her indeed. Then set up a place and time. :D
 

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HeyPachuco! said:
Girl: *This is where it starts to get "CREEPY" *Whats so funny about the fact that im not working this week???? absolutely nothing and who gave u permission to call me XXXX ??? no1. Why are u hung over what did u do?
This is where you should've stopped replying.
 

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She sounds like she's 14. And for a second there I thought I was listening to 2 women gossiping with all the LOLs and faces.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You didn't build up your value. Your attempt at C+F rapport came across as try-hard. DHV before you Qualify.
 

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OK maybe i read it wrong, but it seems like some of the things you said didn't really make sense either.
 

CaptainJ

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You should have called her out more, rather than walking on egg shells with all the XXX's, smilies and LOLs. She is a headcase though, NEXT.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is a 25 yr. OLD WOMAN!

So maybe shes trying to take advantage of that slight age difference I don't know. The XXX's is where I'm censoring her name. Who ever said I didn't add VALUE to the conversation is a straight up douche and a mystery nuthugger for pete's sake.

And the "Laugh.Out.Louds" and smiley faces is just a habit, I usually use it due the first stages of rapport, but dont continue it afterwards, just a comfort thing I'm use to.

Its a shame, cos she was cute, BUT yh she's got some hidden bitter agenda,No problem nexting her, I just find this a little weird that she straight up said some of the things she said, Usually I would of flamed things like this and continued it, but even after I said BYE, she still consisted to heckle me.

Red Flag.
 
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