"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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haha funny msn prob

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Hey, a girl from another city recently added me by mistake (typed a _ instead of a - and there, she added me). We talked for some time, like 4 convos. Now she totally got a crush on me. She seems very desperate and she's lika 4/10 in looks (saw pictures)... I've blocked this girl cause I can't stand talking to her bla bla bla.. So should I tell her something or just leave her blocked?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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john paul

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this is easy.
leave her blocked and its a done deal. its not like you will see her ever if she lives in another city
 
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or..

you should tell her your gay, then getyour mom to write a letter sayign how you shouldnt be gay, then try to get a press conference the whole country sees about how youre not gay and you want to stop those rumours, then go on msn and tell her youre gay but you had to lie in front of the cameras, then go on msn again and pretend to be your sister and say that the real you was abducted by aliens
 
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Plec07

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Erm... Gary were you by any chance drunk, stoned or a mixture of the two when you made your last set of replies? lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LOL Gary

Block her. Forget her. Simple. If it makes you feel guilty just remember that its easier for her in the long run then stringing her along. Or you could tell her your not interested before blocking here, unless you still want to waste your PRECIOUS time talking to her in future.
 
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