"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Last night I spoke to a group of 3 girls. All outter towners coming down to a festival in my town.

They where so baffled and confused as to how I knew so much on their hometown. I didn't even ask any of them for their numbers. Two HB7s and one 4.

A car (CB attempt) pulled up and threw coins at us (the girls), I laughed it off and said "oww, you know what that means....thats an insult ladies..haha" One of the HB7s asked "what do you mean..insult?" I said it doesnt matter :D

Spent about 30minutes building rapport w/ them and walked them back to their hotel. Last thing I said was "alrighhhhhhht girls... Im outter here, I'll see you soon.." - The HB4chick said "what was his nameee..!" as they where walking back they kept turning back hoping I would join them.

All I could hear was "whats his name, whats his name .." One of the girls mouths where dropped that I didnt ask or her number

Hahaha. I feel good about this. For me, this is more than getting a number. As I got on the Bus, one of them was at the bottom of the street, seeing if I was still there and then noticed I got on the bus when it went past her. She must've been embarassed or something.

I'm going to do more of this, ruling out ASKING FOR NUMBERS. And see what kind of feedback I get.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Is your aim to improve your conversation skills with women?
If yes, what did you do to build rapport for thirty minutes, did they attempt to test you and seek your approval, did one woman stand out more than the others?

If the answer is no.
They were from another town and you walked them to their hotel building, there is a danger that what you did may be perceived as shielding yourself from rejection. You don't need to have a woman's phone number to sleep with her.
 
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