"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Last night I spoke to a group of 3 girls. All outter towners coming down to a festival in my town.

They where so baffled and confused as to how I knew so much on their hometown. I didn't even ask any of them for their numbers. Two HB7s and one 4.

A car (CB attempt) pulled up and threw coins at us (the girls), I laughed it off and said "oww, you know what that means....thats an insult ladies..haha" One of the HB7s asked "what do you mean..insult?" I said it doesnt matter :D

Spent about 30minutes building rapport w/ them and walked them back to their hotel. Last thing I said was "alrighhhhhhht girls... Im outter here, I'll see you soon.." - The HB4chick said "what was his nameee..!" as they where walking back they kept turning back hoping I would join them.

All I could hear was "whats his name, whats his name .." One of the girls mouths where dropped that I didnt ask or her number

Hahaha. I feel good about this. For me, this is more than getting a number. As I got on the Bus, one of them was at the bottom of the street, seeing if I was still there and then noticed I got on the bus when it went past her. She must've been embarassed or something.

I'm going to do more of this, ruling out ASKING FOR NUMBERS. And see what kind of feedback I get.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is your aim to improve your conversation skills with women?
If yes, what did you do to build rapport for thirty minutes, did they attempt to test you and seek your approval, did one woman stand out more than the others?

If the answer is no.
They were from another town and you walked them to their hotel building, there is a danger that what you did may be perceived as shielding yourself from rejection. You don't need to have a woman's phone number to sleep with her.
 
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