"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hah, this is great

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Man, I used to be so nervous and shy, when I was around good looking girls/women, but lately I have been going out more talking to people, and just having a good time.

I have been going to a club around here for awhile now, but I used to not have that much fun, I wouldnt dance much, just drink and lean up against the wall.

But the last 3 times I have gone, I have talked to and danced with at least 6 different hb 6-8's, and last night, I saw these 3 asian ladies, I think they are around 28y/o, dancing, and I went over to them talked a little and one of them told me that their friend wanted to dance with me, so I danced with her, & her friends.

Then they invited me to a party the next night (tonight), gave me thier #, and afterwards we went out to eat at carrows . All in all I'd say it was a good night, and I plan on doing it more often.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Also, when I went up to the 3 girls, they were on the dancefloor, and I was standing on a walkway, I kind of made eye contact with one of them for a second, and then she looked away, and started talking to her friends, they laughed/giggled a little bit, and kept looking over at me.

I thought that they were laughing at me, so I almost walked away, but then I said what the hell, what do I have to lose, i'll never see them again anyway so, I started talking to them, and voila.

And when I was dancing with her (the friend that wanted to dance with me) I saw a friend that I had not seen in awhile, so I told her that I would be right back, and went and talked to my friend, which I never would have done before, for fear of losing what I had going.

I talked to him for awhile, went to the bathroom, came back and her and her friends were sitting there, so I walked up and said that they should be dancing (which I also wouldnt have done before, I would have figured that they did not want to dance anymore and didnt want to be bothered), so the one I was dancing with before got up and we danced some more.

So thank you everybody here, for helping me and others become more skilled in this game.
 
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