"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Had sex with her, now ignore her?

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So i had sex with her, but i dont like her emotionally. She, on the other hand, is onto me and assumes shes my girlfriend. I've been ignoring her in class, unintentionally, and there was a point where i flirted with another girl. The first girl sees this, looks angry, and gives me attitude. She asks why i've been ignoring her. I tell her "What? Did you ask me something? If you want me to answer your question then ask, if not, dont give me this attitude. I cant read minds." She calms down after awhile and everything is back to normal. I know i have been acting like a jerk but its because im not sure what to do so i fall back on the jerk protocol.

Shes really irritating actually. Shes going on vacation for two weeks in a bit, and she keeps telling me like shes leaving forever. **** test to see if ill overreact? I say: "cool. have fun. you're lucky your parents are taking you there." Then she asks "you wont go and flirt around with other girls while im gone, right?" This crap gets annoying fast. I've never been in a situation where im actually the prize, so im confused.

So help me out DJs. The reason i still interact with her is because i'd like to keep her around for the sex and the social proof around school when it starts in september. Should i act cold and dont care about her, or should i actually be a nice guy and meet her halfway?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do what you want. However the consequences are what you're worried about, right? You can either tell her that you want an open relationship or just do whatever (flirt, ignore). I'm enjoying reading about you playing the jealousy hand -- it works great, just don't overdo it.

So I guess I'm saying that if you're going to be nice, don't be too nice. Even if I were in a committed relationship I would want the freedom to flirt/party with others.
 
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Just say "Look slut, I don't really care for you or what you talk about, I just wait for you to shut your gap and spread your legs like the dirty filthy lil' hoe you are"

Seriously dude, if you want to keep her around just for sex, then don't be too cold or she won't be eager to put out anymore. I get the feeling she's just putting out so you'd consider dating her, some b'itches are like that. They fvck you because in their warped minds it makes them think you'll date them.

You've been playing it non chalant so far and it seems to be working, even though she's annoying as hell, she still has a slit between her legs and you have a kock that needs to work out. Just use her as a kock socket. Enjoy that putang, chum.
 
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alright first off you are in deep sh*t.... once girls get attached its hard to knock em off... "speaking from experiance".... you have to make up your Fuking mind on what you want... if you just want to bang this girl whenever you feel like its not gonna happend unless you treat her well and act like her bf.. on occasions... if you want to get rid of her just tell her i dont like you sorry i mislead you bye.... be nice to go cussing her out and sh*t... keep your cool.... or you can just tell her striaght up... i dont like you as gf but i would like to have sex with you on occasions... she'll most likekly slap you but its cool... its worth try ....

on thing to keep on mind... once your to deep its harder to swim out of the mess .......

PEACE !!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Alen-Delon
alright first off you are in deep sh*t.... once girls get attached its hard to knock em off... "speaking from experiance".... you have to make up your Fuking mind on what you want... if you just want to bang this girl whenever you feel like its not gonna happend unless you treat her well and act like her bf.. on occasions... if you want to get rid of her just tell her i dont like you sorry i mislead you bye.... be nice to go cussing her out and sh*t... keep your cool.... or you can just tell her striaght up... i dont like you as gf but i would like to have sex with you on occasions... she'll most likekly slap you but its cool... its worth try ....

on thing to keep on mind... once your to deep its harder to swim out of the mess .......

PEACE !!
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lol this reminds me, an ex of my brother wants him just for sex, after he broke up...he refused though.
 
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