Had sex on monday, she asks to see me 2 days later

[AhGonlum]

Alright she cancelled for tonight due to the fact she has period. She rescheduled for monday, she will do groceries to cook lasagna together

 

[Barrister]

I am late to the party on this one -- but don't ever ask a woman "what do you want to do" in early stage dating. Take the lead and just decide what you're going to do and do it with her. Women want a man who leads. The more decisions you leave up to her the less you look like you are in charge and even if she doesn't understand outright what is happening, she is subconsciously going to dry up to that.

 

[AhGonlum]

I am late to the party on this one -- but don't ever ask a woman "what do you want to do" in early stage dating. Take the lead and just decide what you're going to do and do it with her. Women want a man who leads. The more decisions you leave up to her the less you look like you are in charge and even if she doesn't understand outright what is happening, she is subconsciously going to dry up to that.

yes, it’s fine I am leading now.
We did mini golf last week, and I proposed to cook together for this week, but it will be on Monday.
Which is funny is that we text just to see each other and sometimes randomly she send me a message like last night when she was supposed to be out with her girl friends

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Based on OP being as supplicating, non-leading and "happy as a puppy" as possible it seems, this is not going to end well.

The only thing saving you I am guessing at this point is that you look good, but that doesn't last long. She already knows she has you wrapped around her little finger and can manipulate you anytime she wants and that will get boring after a while.

 

[AhGonlum]

Based on OP being as supplicating, non-leading and "happy as a puppy" as possible it seems, this is not going to end well.

The only thing saving you I am guessing at this point is that you look good, but that doesn't last long. She already knows she has you wrapped around her little finger and can manipulate you anytime she wants and that will get boring after a while.

Bro how does she know I am around her finger. We have just seen each other 2 times, we are not texting that much

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Bro how does she know I am around her finger. We have just seen each other 2 times, we are not texting that much

Easily. I can tell it already based on the content of what you are texting and the way you are acting here.

You are in Fantasyland if you think that she can't tell.

Who cares how often you text, it's the CONTENT of your texts that matter.

 

[AhGonlum]

Easily. I can tell it already based on the content of what you are texting and the way you are acting here.

You are in Fantasyland if you think that she can't tell.

Who cares how often you text, it's the CONTENT of your texts that matter.

it’s funny because she cancelled in the afternoon for this night but then at 8pm she sent me a message saying that I can come over.
i am now at her house

 

[BackInTheGame78]

it’s funny because she cancelled in the afternoon for this night but then at 8pm she sent me a message saying that I can come over.
i am now at her house

It's not funny at all. She essentially wanted to see how easy it is to manipulate you and see how available and desperate for her attention you are.

And you just failed.

 

[AhGonlum]

It's not funny at all. She essentially wanted to see how easy it is to manipulate you and see how available and desperate for her attention you are.

And you just failed.

Stop being that pessimistic. We have planned this friday evening few days before so I was supposed to be with her in any case…
So she cancelled I said ok fine, and called me back as it was initially supposed to be.
She said to me let’s see each other 2 times a week, I will not go for it tho

 

[AhGonlum]

The only reason she calls me back is because I look good and I f*ck her good tbh

 

[Divorced w 3]

Stop being that autistic.

interesting, why the sudden abrasiveness

 

[AhGonlum]

interesting, why the sudden abrasiveness

Everyone on this thread is just abrasive for no reason

 

[Divorced w 3]

Everyone on this thread is just abrasive for no reason

So it took you four full pages to grow a set?

 

[AhGonlum]

So it took you four full pages to grow a set?

I am just telling my flirt story in a chill way, if she dumps me it’s not the end of the world

 

[Divorced w 3]

I am just telling my flirt story in a chill way, if she dumps me it’s not the end of the world

Telling a guy he’s an autist because he gave you feedback isn’t chill though.

 

[AhGonlum]

Telling a guy he’s an autist because he gave you feedback isn’t chill though.

Damn I told that to the moderator.
Nah but nothing towards him. Just for 3-4 pages people where just made critique of my decision without explaining me well

 

[BaronOfHair]

Bro how does she know I am around her finger

Analogous to Dale's son really being the spawn of John Redcorn... Obvious to EVERYONE, except the afflicted

 

[AhGonlum]

Analogous to Dale's son really being the spawn of John Redcorn... Obvious to EVERYONE, except the afflicted

So you mean that in less than a month she will probably lose interest ?
cause she has high one now

 

[BaronOfHair]

So you mean that in less than a month she will probably lose interest ?

This is a possibility, yeah. In any event, EVERYTHING in our peripheral lives is impermanent, our love affairs included

 

[BackInTheGame78]

interesting, why the sudden abrasiveness

He thought his made up story showed something awesome then got his card pulled and got upset.