“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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had oneitis, got over it - now she likes me

Galaxy51

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damnit, why did this happen? I asked this one chick out a long time ago, after we flirted for a long time and became pretty good friends, but she said no I was like wow. so after that, I didn't speak a single word to her, she said hi to me a few times, I said nothing. I acted like she didn't exist. i felt a lot of tension because we ALWAYS talked and flirted, then that thing happened out of nowhere. we didnt speak a word to each other for 4 months. she'd even give me dirty looks sometimes.... So anyway I started dating this other chick and I've heard from people she's jealous, which I figured cuz when my girl came to my work I caught her with a really sad, jealous type look on her face. I liked her a lot too at one point, I finally got over her, and now this happens.

I dont know why, but when you built a flirty type friendship with someone and then for some reason you guys get into a huge fight where you dont speak to each other at all, it seems to almost really keep the interest level up, and makes you want that person more. that's the only thing I can think of. any ideas?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bradshaw

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Originally posted by Galaxy51
I started dating this other chick
I would suspect that this is the reason.

I had the same thing happen to me. Asked a chick out, she declined. Then I started dating a hotter girl and suddenly she won't leave me alone. If I wasn't dating the new girl I doubt she would have had any interest.
 

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She likes you because you gave her drama. If she ever confronts you and you guys have a shouting match and are able to make up afterwards, she will likely lust after you for some time.

With some girls, especially the attention *****s, drama = intense attraction. go figure:rolleyes:
 
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