"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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had oneitis, got over it - now she likes me

Galaxy51

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damnit, why did this happen? I asked this one chick out a long time ago, after we flirted for a long time and became pretty good friends, but she said no I was like wow. so after that, I didn't speak a single word to her, she said hi to me a few times, I said nothing. I acted like she didn't exist. i felt a lot of tension because we ALWAYS talked and flirted, then that thing happened out of nowhere. we didnt speak a word to each other for 4 months. she'd even give me dirty looks sometimes.... So anyway I started dating this other chick and I've heard from people she's jealous, which I figured cuz when my girl came to my work I caught her with a really sad, jealous type look on her face. I liked her a lot too at one point, I finally got over her, and now this happens.

I dont know why, but when you built a flirty type friendship with someone and then for some reason you guys get into a huge fight where you dont speak to each other at all, it seems to almost really keep the interest level up, and makes you want that person more. that's the only thing I can think of. any ideas?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bradshaw

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Originally posted by Galaxy51
I started dating this other chick
I would suspect that this is the reason.

I had the same thing happen to me. Asked a chick out, she declined. Then I started dating a hotter girl and suddenly she won't leave me alone. If I wasn't dating the new girl I doubt she would have had any interest.
 

Porky

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She likes you because you gave her drama. If she ever confronts you and you guys have a shouting match and are able to make up afterwards, she will likely lust after you for some time.

With some girls, especially the attention *****s, drama = intense attraction. go figure:rolleyes:
 
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