"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Had My Testosterone Checked

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I had my testosterone checked. It came out to be 513. My doctor told me my levels aren't low enough to get testosterone. I'm 36 yrs old, low body fat, and I lift at the gym multiple times per week.

Do you guys consider my levels low? If so, should I see another doctor? How am I supposed to know if a doctor will give me a prescription or not? I don't want to waste money seeing a bunch of different doctors.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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513 ng? What is the reference range they gave you?

Its more or the less the same levels I have now...I had 320 in september...
 

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I have the same exact levels of you except free T which is a little bit higher.

According to the stats as you see, everything is within range therefore no doctor will do sh1t about it.

Doctors dont care about making the best out of you, they are just made to make human function within normality.

Btw how do you feel in terms of libido, strenght, aggressivity, muscle mass and breard growth?
 

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I have the same exact levels of you except free T which is a little bit higher.

According to the stats as you see, everything is within range therefore no doctor will do sh1t about it.

Doctors dont care about making the best out of you, they are just made to make human function within normality.

Btw how do you feel in terms of libido, strenght, aggressivity, muscle mass and breard growth?
That kind of sucks. I was hoping to get a test prescription.

I can't bust as many loads as I used to. If I bust 2 loads one day, the next day I'll only be able to get 1 off. It used to not be like this. I'm a hard gainer, so I've always had trouble gaining muscle mass. But, right now I'm the biggest I have ever been in my entire life. I have a beard that has grown in great, but I'm thinning out on the top of my head. Everything else is fine, besides that I am more tired then I used to be when I was younger. I have to have caffeine by mid afternoon, when I used to not need any.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That kind of sucks. I was hoping to get a test prescription.

I can't bust as many loads as I used to. If I bust 2 loads one day, the next day I'll only be able to get 1 off. It used to not be like this. I'm a hard gainer, so I've always had trouble gaining muscle mass. But, right now I'm the biggest I have ever been in my entire life. I have a beard that has grown in great, but I'm thinning out on the top of my head. Everything else is fine, besides that I am more tired then I used to be when I was younger. I have to have caffeine by mid afternoon, when I used to not need any.
I can relate in sexual terms, libido is much lower than others and while strenght is much higher than the average person I see at the gym, the mass doesnt match it.

Anyway I suggest you to do a broader check, your issues could be connected to prolactin, estrogens, thyroid hormones and dht, your free test should be much higher also considering your total T levels.

Im sure some guys like marmel could provide more details anyway your best bet is to make a broader check, shbg or aromatase could be too high leaving your with low free T.
 
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