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My buddy and I often screenshot our online dating matches and compare notes. We had one we both matched with and were talking to for about 2 days. Girl was showing solid interest with both of us. Neither of us cares what happens.

To test these girls we typically set up dates at the same time and see what kind of excuses they come up with or how they try and wiggle out of it. Forces them to show their cards without realizing it.

But with this girl I set up a date for Thursday nite and he set up a date for Friday nite with her. She ends up cancelling on me 1.5hr before our date. Her excuse was she was still working and didn't know when she was going to be done. She was super sorry and felt really bad. But no counter offer and I ignored it because my gut told me she was full of schitt.

It wasn't 10 minutes later she is texting my buddy asking him to go out instead. The having to work story was a lie. lol. So he tells her no, it will have to be Friday night. My guess tells me there was another guy she was trying to fit in.

Friday nite rolls around, and he doesn't even bother going to meet her. He texted her right when they were supposed to meet and the convo went like this:

Howie's Buddy: I'm gonna be honest with you. You flaked on my buddy Howie last night and I think you move a little slow so you should just stay home tonite sweet tits. I like to go out and drink and you seem a little boring anyways. You told me your last boyfriend had to wait 3months to have sex with you. I like to see the goods before I get into a relationship and you don't seem like thats important to you. This is America and this is how we are making dating great again. Get used to it or stay home.

Tinder Chic: WOW. JUST WOW. YOU TWO ARE SUCH D!CKS. I CANCELLED ON YOUR BUDDY(Howie) BECAUSE HE SEEMS A LITTLE TOO SMOOTH.

We had a good laugh over this. Chic was a solid HB8.5. Moral of the story is don't take these girls serious. Don't believe what they tell you.
 

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"Sweet tits" hahahaha.
 

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:)

A play on this is to have a "catfishing buddy" (i.e., fake profile), then have the real you set up a date, and then let the catfishing buddy offer to meet at the same time and see if she bails on the real you ... and then have the catfishing buddy bail on her. :devil:
 

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You could have gotten a date if your buddy didn't reveal his cards. Not this time of course, couple of weeks down the road. What good is a chick if you don't meet her. As far as her real motivation for cancellation, could be whatever, even to sh1t test your smooth ass. Another sh1t test on your buddy at the same time. Girl is not wasting her time for dating, she straight up sh1t tests and screens.

I mean, you two remind me of a red pill youtube channel I come across just a few days ago. There was straight h8 on women, they were expecting a perfect woman not realizing they are not perfect men.

Never hate a player.
 

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This is America and this is how we are making dating great again. Get used to it or stay home.
One of the most cringey things I've read on here.

It sucks that she flaked, but we've all done it. We've all dropped someone for someone we were more interested in. In this case it just happened to be your buddy, and instead of being mature about it you played some high school games and both lost out. Bravo.
 

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My buddy and I often screenshot our online dating matches and compare notes. We had one we both matched with and were talking to for about 2 days. Girl was showing solid interest with both of us. Neither of us cares what happens.

To test these girls we typically set up dates at the same time and see what kind of excuses they come up with or how they try and wiggle out of it. Forces them to show their cards without realizing it.

But with this girl I set up a date for Thursday nite and he set up a date for Friday nite with her. She ends up cancelling on me 1.5hr before our date. Her excuse was she was still working and didn't know when she was going to be done. She was super sorry and felt really bad. But no counter offer and I ignored it because my gut told me she was full of schitt.

It wasn't 10 minutes later she is texting my buddy asking him to go out instead. The having to work story was a lie. lol. So he tells her no, it will have to be Friday night. My guess tells me there was another guy she was trying to fit in.

Friday nite rolls around, and he doesn't even bother going to meet her. He texted her right when they were supposed to meet and the convo went like this:

Howie's Buddy: I'm gonna be honest with you. You flaked on my buddy Howie last night and I think you move a little slow so you should just stay home tonite sweet tits. I like to go out and drink and you seem a little boring anyways. You told me your last boyfriend had to wait 3months to have sex with you. I like to see the goods before I get into a relationship and you don't seem like thats important to you. This is America and this is how we are making dating great again. Get used to it or stay home.

Tinder Chic: WOW. JUST WOW. YOU TWO ARE SUCH D!CKS. I CANCELLED ON YOUR BUDDY(Howie) BECAUSE HE SEEMS A LITTLE TOO SMOOTH.

We had a good laugh over this. Chic was a solid HB8.5. Moral of the story is don't take these girls serious. Don't believe what they tell you.
You could have gotten a date if your buddy didn't reveal his cards. Not this time of course, couple of weeks down the road. What good is a chick if you don't meet her. As far as her real motivation for cancellation, could be whatever, even to sh1t test your smooth ass. Another sh1t test on your buddy at the same time. Girl is not wasting her time for dating, she straight up sh1t tests and screens.

I mean, you two remind me of a red pill youtube channel I come across just a few days ago. There was straight h8 on women, they were expecting a perfect woman not realizing they are not perfect men.

Never hate a player.
Howie and his boy are true players. Look how she tried to do them. The dating market in Dallas is the wild wild west or WWE. I applaud him for being able to pinpoint het female nature.
 

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At the casino? Why didn't they play this girl properly? Why fvck around? True players don't fvck around when they fvck around.
They didn't want to give her the pleasure. They identified that she stretches guys out for dates and they called her on it.
 

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What good is it? She doing the same thing right this moment. By the way, all she doing is screening before the date. They all doing that, it's some sort of advice they read or watched on youtube.
 

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What good is it? She doing the same thing right this moment. By the way, all she doing is screening before the date. They all doing that, it's some sort of advice they read or watched on youtube.
What they got done is no one called her on it. They couldve done one step more inviting her out and not showing up or leaving after the meetup. Their game was to mirror many of the monkeyshines performed against man.
 

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@TBG @backseatjuan you guys are missing the point. It doesn't matter whether they went on the date or not. They exposed the girl's behavior and we're just having fun. He's not upset about going on the date.
 

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They exposed the girl's behavior and we're just having fun. He's not upset about going on the date.
Yes but they already know how girls behave, it is nothing new.

Instead of going out with a 8.5 Tinder girl and perhaps sleeping with her, they both stayed at home Friday night and said “we are the man.”

If that’s what they like to do, more power to them, But I think it’s pointless.
 

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You could have gotten a date if your buddy didn't reveal his cards. Not this time of course, couple of weeks down the road. What good is a chick if you don't meet her. As far as her real motivation for cancellation, could be whatever, even to sh1t test your smooth ass. Another sh1t test on your buddy at the same time. Girl is not wasting her time for dating, she straight up sh1t tests and screens.
I am 95% certain I could have. However, I am the one that runs the show, not them. I'm not interested in playing a pawn in their silly game of lining up guys to provide free attention.

I have more respect for myself than dealing with a girl that flakes shortly before a date and offers no counter. I also have other options so I can afford to take chances. A girl that is really into you won't play any of these silly games. If you are ok with being treated like a pawn in a chess game, then keep your thought process. More options and more awareness will teach you a lot.
 

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Yes but they already know how girls behave, it is nothing new.

Instead of going out with a 8.5 Tinder girl and perhaps sleeping with her, they both stayed at home Friday night and said “we are the man.”
If you had better options or the ability to develop such options, then you wouldn't give a fvck either. IDGAF is the mindset of men immersed in pvzzy; that is zero thirst buckets to care.

I notice this theme a lot in your threads. Don't you have any options buddy?
 

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Yes but they already know how girls behave, it is nothing new.

Instead of going out with a 8.5 Tinder girl and perhaps sleeping with her, they both stayed at home Friday night and said “we are the man.”

If that’s what they like to do, more power to them, But I think it’s pointless.
I took out another girl I had been out with twice before. My buddy had a girl come over to his house. Come on Trump, there you go projecting again. :D
 

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Howie and his boy are true players. Look how she tried to do them. The dating market in Dallas is the wild wild west or WWE. I applaud him for being able to pinpoint het female nature.
Nah, if they were true players they would have been tag teaming her Friday Night.
 

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If you had a handful of better options, then you wouldn't give a fvck. IDGAF is the mindset of men immersed in pvzzy; that is zero thirst buckets to care.

I notice this theme a lot in your threads. Don't you have any options buddy?
I didn't always understand this. But it is so true. A man with options will out shine a woman with options every day of the week. When a man approaches dating like the typical female does he becomes very successful.
 

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I didn't always understand this. But it is so true. A man with options will out shine a woman with options every day of the week. When a man approaches dating like the typical female does he becomes very successful.
You see Howie, here's the thing. Really hot women can't stand rejection; it's an anathema to their ego ... so rare to them, that a single rejection will imbue their psyche for years, whereas a guy (hopefully) can mow through many rejections and on to the next one.

That's why I've found much success in this "game," simply because I am willing to reject women for anything and for nothing ... and thus ... keep them circulating to compete for my validation.
 

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If you had better options or the ability to develop such options, then you wouldn't give a fvck either. IDGAF is the mindset of men immersed in pvzzy; that is zero thirst buckets to care.
What does that have to do with anything?

HW’s buddy: “What do you want to do tonight?”
HW: “Well I’m 42 years old and have a lot of girls chasing me and I have a lot options.”
HW’s buddy: ‘OK well call them.”
HW: ‘No no no. I got a better idea. Let’s go online, create online dating profiles, TEST girls and compare notes.”
HW’s buddy: “OK.”
HW: “Not only that, lets set up dates at the same time and see what kind of excuses they come up with or how they try and wiggle out of it. It will force them to show their cards without realizing it.
HW’s buddy: “Why set up dates at the same time? Why don’t we just date them normally?”
HW: “No no no. THIS is a better use of our time. It shows our IDGAF attitude to online women.”
HW’s buddy: “So instead of one of us trying to connect with a Tinder girl, we play her and no one gets her?”
HW: ‘Yeah! Guys who have a lot of options and have women begging to date them and impregnate them, DO THIS!”
HW’s buddy: “Yes, you are right this is a good use of our time.”
HW: “Rock on!”
 
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