Just tell her you are looking for girlfriend and ask if she wants to have sex with you. be bold
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Had a horrible night out at local bar
- Thread starter bigdave17
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
A favorite law professor of mine had a similar saying, something like "people notice you a lot less than you think they do."
the question about sales- I don't really do any active "selling" at my job
i just make customers feel very comfortable around me and they naturally want to buy
sph21
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Dave, have you read DJ Bible section about conversations? Have you practiced it with everyone?
In order for someone else to be interested in you, you must be interested in him/ her first. At first, it was hard for me to do this because I'm an introvert. And then it got easier as I let them do most of the talking.
The way you communicate during the conversations will signal her whether you just want to be a friend or something more. This is a very complex matter to explain in a single post. I suggest you to learn about verbal and nonverbal communications. You aren't just communicating through your words, but you are communicating through your whole body. And women can read these signals better than us.
In order for someone else to be interested in you, you must be interested in him/ her first. At first, it was hard for me to do this because I'm an introvert. And then it got easier as I let them do most of the talking.
The way you communicate during the conversations will signal her whether you just want to be a friend or something more. This is a very complex matter to explain in a single post. I suggest you to learn about verbal and nonverbal communications. You aren't just communicating through your words, but you are communicating through your whole body. And women can read these signals better than us.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
In other words, you do NOTHING.
Yet you think you deserve a place at the top of the world.