"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Had a girl tell me she was intimudated but excited at the same time by me...lol

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Walked into the store next door to where I work to get a few supplies for our store. New girl at the counter said I can help you over here. Walked over, put my stuff on the counter, and the girl was acting super nervous, stuttering her words and nervously laughing, then spilled an entire box of pencils all over the counter and floor. I laughed and asked if I was making her nervous. She giggled and said yes and that she was intimidated by me but excited at the same time, then said she was so embarrassed...all her coworkers were laughing at her...I told her it was cool and not to be embarrassed...I left and saw her staring at me the whole way out...

Never had that happen before just trying to figure out wtf that was about...assuming it was probably an IOI but I just wasn't in the mood for it...kinda in a d!ckish mood today actually...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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