"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Had a girl 9 years my younger say, "It's good to see you again."

Poonani Maker

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Buying interest? You know, I kino'd her about 2 months ago on the shoulder, and she did not like it obviously at the time as there were other people around. I didn't give a fvck. And to her "put-off" reaction, I remained upbeat, not reacting to her reacting, just smiling like I'd done nothing wrong to her.

Anyway, she's Very sheltered, still lives with her parents at 25/26 years old, tall, good body, face o. k., smart, traditional. She looks like she could really be always up for sex if this turned out to be long-term. I can just sense that she probably masturbates.

I'm definitely starting to get feelings for her in my d!ck, don't know about my heart yet.

I just said, "It's good to see you again too, [her name]." This exchange was at the end of our conversation.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Poonani Maker said:
I just said, "It's good to see you again too, [her name]." This exchange was at the end of our conversation.
People's responses are always on auto-pilot. Just like you responded to her, "Good to see you again" without much tought.

If you tell somebody, "You look great", they will respond "You look great too."

"I am glad to see you." gets a, "I am glad to see you response".

Is she interested? Probably not, but do you already have her digits? If not, then you're just an acquaintance who kinda creeped her out when trying to "kino her on the shoulder."

A better response would have been to add to the response you gave her. "Great to see you too [her name], let's get together soon.", and get her contact info. Her reaction will tell you a lot more about her interest in you than a "Good to see you", standard greeting.
 

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Also, I know her Dad and Momma, and both have pushed or encouraged her to get close to me, to date me. Last summer they gave me opportunities to be around their daughter, but WHILE picnicking etc, I kept my distance from her.
 

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ya what kingy said, you want to focus on the game but not let it dictate your life. live, learn, and have fun.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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