Had a fight with a good mate about women

[Kravy]

Hi all

I was talking to my friend about what to say to this chick other day.
She said all these guys were hitting on her last night at a party and all our mates saying she is hot.

So obviously she knows she is pretty fine, just wants to increase her ego a bit more.

So i said to say, "yeh your pretty f$cken ugly" or something like that but in funny way and said it wont give her as much ego boost and you want be just there to give compliments to her and become her good chumpy friend.

He is known getting into good friends with girls aswell and know he wants this chick aswell.

He knows i read up on DJ forums and just thinks bullsh$t.

I said why you think im getting so maney chicks lately ? and he just fliped and went insane saying you think you know all this ****.

I said it makes sense, she looking for someone to tell her she is hot ,she already knows this d$ckhead and who better then you to give her that ego boost,

He's MR Nice Guy.

Is there anyway to get these people like this head right on track and not be such p$ssy, he's one of those real good mates ?

Sometimes feel like should just drop him, I got other DJ friends who are on same track as me and able to work and help each other like a family, able to go clubin and understand how each others work.


Just my 2 cents of b$tchin

 

[Caveman]

Lead by example. If they aren't asking you how you pull so many chicks, don't tell him. He's not ready. Guys need to realize first that what they've been doing up till now has not worked for them.

I don't see a reason for you to drop him though. Just don't talk about stuff like that. Use him as a videogame friend or whatever.

 

[backbreaker]

the whole point of a neg hit, isn't to make them feel bad,it's to even the playing field. I mean, would you be attracted to a girl that called you ugly? I hope not.

Instead of saying that, saying something along the lines of "you could use some lotion couldn't you?" or "next time, you have to actually dress up when you go out to attracted the good men because I am not feeling your outfit"

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by backbreaker
the whole point of a neg hit, isn't to make them feel bad,it's to even the playing field. I mean, would you be attracted to a girl that called you ugly? I hope not.

Instead of saying that, saying something along the lines of "you could use some lotion couldn't you?" or "next time, you have to actually dress up when you go out to attracted the good men because I am not feeling your outfit"

Neghits have to have some sort of a positive outcome or it will turn the girl off...

 

[Fatality]

Calling a girl "ugly" I think is going too far with the neg hit.

 

[MetalFortress]

Neg hits should be

1) teasing her like she's your little sister

AND

2) something that makes her say "thanks, I think" (stolen from baseball DJ's sig)

 

[evolvingnerd]

Originally posted by Caveman
Lead by example. If they aren't asking you how you pull so many chicks, don't tell him. He's not ready. Guys need to realize first that what they've been doing up till now has not worked for them.

I don't see a reason for you to drop him though. Just don't talk about stuff like that. Use him as a videogame friend or whatever.

bingo!

same deal happening with a friend of mine, except i'd love to get this guy on the track to Djhood wit me
anyhoo, i totally gave up about talkin to chicks with him, and then suddently he caught me with this chick (not real hot, but it's a start) and he's like, "who's that"
but i changed the topic, didn't wanna push buttons too quickly too early

just ride it out