"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Had a decent date with a girl last night?

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Went bowling and had ice cream. Hugged her and was it. seemed ok

When would I contact her for next date I guess like sunday and ask her to dinner and come over?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NickSCFC

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I'd text her to ask her if she got home safely, it's a gentlemanly thing to do. As for proposing the follow up date, don't rush it, I wouldn't see a woman more than once a week in the first month of dating.

Take it slowly.
 

Albatross953

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Call her when you'd like to because internally you know you are the one inviting her to be a small part of your reality. You're not her dancing monkey, if she's busy its cool she can counter another time.

And yes invite her over to cook. Instigate, isolate, escalate.
 
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