"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Had a decent date with a girl last night?

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thelonewolflegend

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Went bowling and had ice cream. Hugged her and was it. seemed ok

When would I contact her for next date I guess like sunday and ask her to dinner and come over?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'd text her to ask her if she got home safely, it's a gentlemanly thing to do. As for proposing the follow up date, don't rush it, I wouldn't see a woman more than once a week in the first month of dating.

Take it slowly.
 
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Call her when you'd like to because internally you know you are the one inviting her to be a small part of your reality. You're not her dancing monkey, if she's busy its cool she can counter another time.

And yes invite her over to cook. Instigate, isolate, escalate.
 
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