"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Had a date yesterday... waiting for Her to contact me?

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Ok guys, I met this cuban chick, cute. We went on a date yesterday to a nice restaurant, TONS of kino, she grabbed and squeezed my leg a lot, and i did the same to her when I thought there was enough kino from her, she was nice and seemed into me... she had also made plans for us to go out today.... I said,,, just let me know!!!

anyway, i think I might have overdone the kino, and touching her leg, but i did it in a non threatening way, i was playful, ****y, funny, we danced... at the end of the night i tried going for the kiss a bit, she kinda, i tested the waters but she wasnt there yet it seemed, which threw me off a bit.

anyway, I havent texted or called her today, we pretty much text everyday since a week ago, and today she hasnt initiated text or called me, i havent heard from her, and im holding my ground waiting for her... i erased her number, so its either she texts me or calls me,,, or i guess i have no other way to hear from her....

what do you guys think??? is she maybe waiting for me to do the contact??? buy i feel i need to make this one miss me and want to make the contact with me, since i might have done a lot of kino yesterday so she KNOWWSSSSSS THAT IM INTO HER.... by my actions..... so no need to contact i just assume that if she texts me again, its a green light....

but she hasnt :(
any insights??? did i do the right move by deleting her number?? should I have contact her first?.... dang Im no newbie, but This one is HOT, and super NICE, and seemed into me, i liked her.... suxxx
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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also she usually texts me first in the past days ,before we went out... thats why im confused as in she hasnt text today... so it had to be due to the date yesterday... either i did something wrong.....which i dont think,,,,,, or she is waiting for me... but why would she... she has initiated contact before........ aarrrrghhhhh...... live and learn!!!
 
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Don't sweat it, you should know better than to put all your eggs in one basket, if she doesn't call you by 8 or 9 or whatever, go out and find someone else. Don't be sitting at home on a perfectly good Saturday night checking your phone every 5 minutes.

How valuable is your time? How valuable is your money? If she's going to waste it f**k her, put her out of your mind and find someone else, let some other AFC be the chump waiting for her to call.
 
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