"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Had a date yesterday... waiting for Her to contact me?

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Ok guys, I met this cuban chick, cute. We went on a date yesterday to a nice restaurant, TONS of kino, she grabbed and squeezed my leg a lot, and i did the same to her when I thought there was enough kino from her, she was nice and seemed into me... she had also made plans for us to go out today.... I said,,, just let me know!!!

anyway, i think I might have overdone the kino, and touching her leg, but i did it in a non threatening way, i was playful, ****y, funny, we danced... at the end of the night i tried going for the kiss a bit, she kinda, i tested the waters but she wasnt there yet it seemed, which threw me off a bit.

anyway, I havent texted or called her today, we pretty much text everyday since a week ago, and today she hasnt initiated text or called me, i havent heard from her, and im holding my ground waiting for her... i erased her number, so its either she texts me or calls me,,, or i guess i have no other way to hear from her....

what do you guys think??? is she maybe waiting for me to do the contact??? buy i feel i need to make this one miss me and want to make the contact with me, since i might have done a lot of kino yesterday so she KNOWWSSSSSS THAT IM INTO HER.... by my actions..... so no need to contact i just assume that if she texts me again, its a green light....

but she hasnt :(
any insights??? did i do the right move by deleting her number?? should I have contact her first?.... dang Im no newbie, but This one is HOT, and super NICE, and seemed into me, i liked her.... suxxx
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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also she usually texts me first in the past days ,before we went out... thats why im confused as in she hasnt text today... so it had to be due to the date yesterday... either i did something wrong.....which i dont think,,,,,, or she is waiting for me... but why would she... she has initiated contact before........ aarrrrghhhhh...... live and learn!!!
 
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Don't sweat it, you should know better than to put all your eggs in one basket, if she doesn't call you by 8 or 9 or whatever, go out and find someone else. Don't be sitting at home on a perfectly good Saturday night checking your phone every 5 minutes.

How valuable is your time? How valuable is your money? If she's going to waste it f**k her, put her out of your mind and find someone else, let some other AFC be the chump waiting for her to call.
 
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