"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So guys im shareing this in hopes it will help a new guy or something, but anyway the plate ive been seeing has been acting weird lately. So me being me went on the preimtive strike and started my hail call for new plates. Well this a.m. woke up at ""weird acting"" plates house and made a comment about hitting the lake up after work. She said why dont you ask one of your guy friends, big buzzer goes off in my head so i say bye ttyl and peace out. I text new plate abt going out tonight and she says she wants to, at the same time a friend calls and i ask him if he knows her.

I get "" yes" long pause......."she is a slut". Im like good slut or bad slut?. "bad type of slut". Well here is my game plan, since you cant turn a ho into a house wife im going to meet up with her tonight. Make her pay for her own **** and try to bang her. I would say hb8 , could use a little face work but with the ammount of booze i plan on taking in she should be hb9.5 or 10 by the time im done. Anyway moral to the story is always have side plates, and when a woman starts acting in anyway cold, distant, or in my case turns down a fun time on any type of body of water walk away.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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fuko2007 said:
S Make her pay for her own **** and try to bang her. I would say hb8 , could use a little face work but with the ammount of booze i plan on taking in she should be hb9.5 or 10 by the time

Stopped reading after this part, if you really need booze to banger her to make her a 9.5/10 and she is already an 8 something isn't adding up.

Sounds to me like you're dealing with a chick whose more in the 5-6 range unless you wanna prove me wrong by posting a pic blurring out her face I find this hard to believe. I have no problem banging chicks 7+'s without the aide of booze, you may have bigger issues OPIE
 

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Solomon said:
Stopped reading after this part, if you really need booze to banger her to make her a 9.5/10 and she is already an 8 something isn't adding up.

Sounds to me like you're dealing with a chick whose more in the 5-6 range unless you wanna prove me wrong by posting a pic blurring out her face I find this hard to believe. I have no problem banging chicks 7+'s without the aide of booze, you may have bigger issues OPIE
instructions on how to post a pic and ill post it
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do it.
 

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Who cares what other people think. Isolate, escalate, sex.

If she's a "slut" then you have an upper hand. If she's meeting you then she has at least a small interest in sleeping with you.

You should be escalating HARD when you see her. Who gives a crap if she ****s a lot of guys? You're not marrying her. Just make sure you wrap up your d!ck.
 

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fuko2007 said:
at the same time a friend calls and i ask him if he knows her.

I get "" yes" long pause......."she is a slut". Im like good slut or bad slut?. "bad type of slut".
Dont go off what another guy says. Remember 95% of guys are chumps so chances are your friend is a chump when it comes to girls and may be judging from a "nice guy" perspective. I would take his comment with a grain of salt and judge for myself. Her "being a bad s1ut" may actually have had to do MORE WITH THE SH1TTY CHUMP GUYS she was involved with. A red flag is a red flag, no doubt....but judge for yourself on her actions with you.

The only rule you need to know when dealing with girls:

"Dont ask about her past....dont think about her past....leave it where it belongs...in the past. Sure, if she has cheated on her last 4 boyfriends its a super red flag....but in general just stick to: If she cheats on YOU....SHES DONE."
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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oh d@mn I've seen her before!haha yeah dude, if this is who I think it is she IS deffinately a party slvt.
 

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I went to USC and go to all the football games and go out downtown sometimes. I swear that's the same girl I saw one night sitting in between two guys and she would talk to one and turn to the other and makeout with him for awhile and then turn back to the other guy and talk to him. I saw her walk all around the bar that night and flirt with every fvcking guy in the place, whether he was with someone or not! She was with another girl that night and my friends and I were laughing because that was the slvttiest thing we'd ever seen!
 

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Robert28 said:
I went to USC and go to all the football games and go out downtown sometimes. I swear that's the same girl I saw one night sitting in between two guys and she would talk to one and turn to the other and makeout with him for awhile and then turn back to the other guy and talk to him. I saw her walk all around the bar that night and flirt with every fvcking guy in the place, whether he was with someone or not! She was with another girl that night and my friends and I were laughing because that was the slvttiest thing we'd ever seen!
worddddd....so lay factor is high then... it was probabially her then.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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im sorry but this **** is too funny. people are looking at me like im crazy bc im cracking up so hard
 

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fuko2007 said:
from that angle, she looks like a 6.5.

the way she performs in the sack might make her more desirable though, and fun for a weekend or two
 

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from that angle, she looks like a 6.5.

the way she performs in the sack might make her more desirable though, and fun for a weekend or two
If that's a 6.5 I'm curious to knwo where you live

Even with that bad angel she is a solid Minneapolis 7

A better pic maybe a 7.5
 

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so here is an update, i had to cancel bc of my job but instead of me doing a counter offer she did. I got an invite to come stay with her this weekend and go party.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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