"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So guys im shareing this in hopes it will help a new guy or something, but anyway the plate ive been seeing has been acting weird lately. So me being me went on the preimtive strike and started my hail call for new plates. Well this a.m. woke up at ""weird acting"" plates house and made a comment about hitting the lake up after work. She said why dont you ask one of your guy friends, big buzzer goes off in my head so i say bye ttyl and peace out. I text new plate abt going out tonight and she says she wants to, at the same time a friend calls and i ask him if he knows her.

I get "" yes" long pause......."she is a slut". Im like good slut or bad slut?. "bad type of slut". Well here is my game plan, since you cant turn a ho into a house wife im going to meet up with her tonight. Make her pay for her own **** and try to bang her. I would say hb8 , could use a little face work but with the ammount of booze i plan on taking in she should be hb9.5 or 10 by the time im done. Anyway moral to the story is always have side plates, and when a woman starts acting in anyway cold, distant, or in my case turns down a fun time on any type of body of water walk away.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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fuko2007 said:
S Make her pay for her own **** and try to bang her. I would say hb8 , could use a little face work but with the ammount of booze i plan on taking in she should be hb9.5 or 10 by the time

Stopped reading after this part, if you really need booze to banger her to make her a 9.5/10 and she is already an 8 something isn't adding up.

Sounds to me like you're dealing with a chick whose more in the 5-6 range unless you wanna prove me wrong by posting a pic blurring out her face I find this hard to believe. I have no problem banging chicks 7+'s without the aide of booze, you may have bigger issues OPIE
 

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Solomon said:
Stopped reading after this part, if you really need booze to banger her to make her a 9.5/10 and she is already an 8 something isn't adding up.

Sounds to me like you're dealing with a chick whose more in the 5-6 range unless you wanna prove me wrong by posting a pic blurring out her face I find this hard to believe. I have no problem banging chicks 7+'s without the aide of booze, you may have bigger issues OPIE
instructions on how to post a pic and ill post it
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do it.
 

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Who cares what other people think. Isolate, escalate, sex.

If she's a "slut" then you have an upper hand. If she's meeting you then she has at least a small interest in sleeping with you.

You should be escalating HARD when you see her. Who gives a crap if she ****s a lot of guys? You're not marrying her. Just make sure you wrap up your d!ck.
 

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fuko2007 said:
at the same time a friend calls and i ask him if he knows her.

I get "" yes" long pause......."she is a slut". Im like good slut or bad slut?. "bad type of slut".
Dont go off what another guy says. Remember 95% of guys are chumps so chances are your friend is a chump when it comes to girls and may be judging from a "nice guy" perspective. I would take his comment with a grain of salt and judge for myself. Her "being a bad s1ut" may actually have had to do MORE WITH THE SH1TTY CHUMP GUYS she was involved with. A red flag is a red flag, no doubt....but judge for yourself on her actions with you.

The only rule you need to know when dealing with girls:

"Dont ask about her past....dont think about her past....leave it where it belongs...in the past. Sure, if she has cheated on her last 4 boyfriends its a super red flag....but in general just stick to: If she cheats on YOU....SHES DONE."
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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oh d@mn I've seen her before!haha yeah dude, if this is who I think it is she IS deffinately a party slvt.
 

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I went to USC and go to all the football games and go out downtown sometimes. I swear that's the same girl I saw one night sitting in between two guys and she would talk to one and turn to the other and makeout with him for awhile and then turn back to the other guy and talk to him. I saw her walk all around the bar that night and flirt with every fvcking guy in the place, whether he was with someone or not! She was with another girl that night and my friends and I were laughing because that was the slvttiest thing we'd ever seen!
 

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I went to USC and go to all the football games and go out downtown sometimes. I swear that's the same girl I saw one night sitting in between two guys and she would talk to one and turn to the other and makeout with him for awhile and then turn back to the other guy and talk to him. I saw her walk all around the bar that night and flirt with every fvcking guy in the place, whether he was with someone or not! She was with another girl that night and my friends and I were laughing because that was the slvttiest thing we'd ever seen!
worddddd....so lay factor is high then... it was probabially her then.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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im sorry but this **** is too funny. people are looking at me like im crazy bc im cracking up so hard
 

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fuko2007 said:
from that angle, she looks like a 6.5.

the way she performs in the sack might make her more desirable though, and fun for a weekend or two
 

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from that angle, she looks like a 6.5.

the way she performs in the sack might make her more desirable though, and fun for a weekend or two
If that's a 6.5 I'm curious to knwo where you live

Even with that bad angel she is a solid Minneapolis 7

A better pic maybe a 7.5
 

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so here is an update, i had to cancel bc of my job but instead of me doing a counter offer she did. I got an invite to come stay with her this weekend and go party.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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