"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HA she lied for 9 months talk about crazy

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Well this young lady ive been enjoying has had put me in a real bad situation. My Expereineced19 Yr Old GF that worked in beaumont realy turned out to be a 16 and in school. Everyone finds out and her mom wants to have a sit down talk to get to know me obvuously b/c of my age.

I kept good body language and eyeconact with the mom. Body language is key Everyhting went great they were fun to be around so i think.


But can u blieve that she not telling me she was 16 for about 9 months 2 months dataing!

Enjoy
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ha ha, i really hope it's not illigal where ever your from, because if it is and you piss eather of them off, you could easyly end up in jail:D :crackup:
 

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Damn some people in here can't spell.

"Illegal" "dating" "believe" "experience" "either" "obviously"

"easily"

I could pass as a 16 year old but I am actually 22, it's a good thing I guess lol.
 

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Follow Up:met her mom in some nice abercrombie jeans an shirt. made a great impression and her mom is kinda wierd about it but now im accepted. why cant girls the young ones just learn trruth is always best.
 

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Originally posted by spider_007
ha ha, i really hope it's not illigal where ever your from, because if it is and you piss eather of them off, you could easyly end up in jail:D :crackup:

Oooooo ya my legal freedom is in her mom hands and if f break her precisioud cargo this coul very be used against me
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ever just sat back and looked at the situtation, and think that maybe, just maybe, I mean, I don't know if this is a far fetched idea, but maybe, if a girl lies to you for 9 months about her age, that maybe YOU need to to look at the situation inestad of her mom?
 

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Originally posted by blueangel83
Damn some people in here can't spell.

"Illegal" "dating" "believe" "experience" "either" "obviously"

"easily"
you should see me on a bad day:D
 
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