"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's good to feel the DJ in yourself. I was just at a community or whatever dance. From a previous one, I had apparently built up rapport with a girl (cf) and she was giving me kino all night (not hardcore, but enough to send the message). And the lesson to learn for all you afc's out there: I could care less. I could easily get with this chick and if i feel like it I will . All y'all stressing about girls (I'm no great example) need to just chillax for a minute and realise life's more than sticking your thingy in women. By focusing on the one aspect, you're in a sense ruinging the whole thing for yourself. The message simply: just live.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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