It's good to feel the DJ in yourself. I was just at a community or whatever dance. From a previous one, I had apparently built up rapport with a girl (cf) and she was giving me kino all night (not hardcore, but enough to send the message). And the lesson to learn for all you afc's out there: I could care less. I could easily get with this chick and if i feel like it I will . All y'all stressing about girls (I'm no great example) need to just chillax for a minute and realise life's more than sticking your thingy in women. By focusing on the one aspect, you're in a sense ruinging the whole thing for yourself. The message simply: just live.