"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ha, i wanna slap myself

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well there were single-person bathrooms, and the men's one was occupied.
so this chick was going to go into the girls bathroom, and i needed a place to change. so i said " mind if i join ya in there?" in a jokingly maner. i thought she'd just get a laugh outta it. but she said yes and she said it seriously. Then i just froze and blah blah. Well, i know it's breaking the law to go into chick's bathrooms, but i still think it was a chance to at least makeout with her or something...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think that falls under "creepy".
 
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If you're gettin laid it's not creepy.

This is a bit dangerous. This girl might like a bit of danger with sex. If it was a sexual invite.
 
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Yes, as in yes I mind. It's anything but an invite. First she said no, then she said you're a nerd.


It's undrstood why she said no, why did she said the other thing? Drunk?


Not a bad thing at all. Big lesson. Be courteous to women, that means doors, and bathrooms, lol.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dude did you go in or what?

Heh one time I was in the girls bathroom because the men's had been occuppied for like 10 minutes, so I was like fvck it! and went in, and when I got out there was a whole line of girls... and we were both like WTF!

But at least I came out in style :p
 
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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
Dude did you go in or what?

Heh one time I was in the girls bathroom because the men's had been occuppied for like 10 minutes, so I was like fvck it! and went in, and when I got out there was a whole line of girls... and we were both like WTF!

But at least I came out in style :p
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nice lol:yes:
 
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yeh she was definietly saying yes i DO mind. but you shouldn't give a shyt about that uptight b**** a fun girl would have a better response even if she was "creeped out"
 
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OOOHHHH WOW!
i just realized i wrote my post COMPLETELY wrong!
when i asked her if she minded, she said "no" as in an invite. haha
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This sh!t is pathetic, talk about pusvy being thrown your way and you bitvh up. It sounds like he didn't go in there. I'm assuming you've never heard of bathroom pulling. (Famous place for pulling chicks in the mall)

If you was that scared you should've just kissed her then and there. If you were kissing then you damn well know you was atleast getting a HANDJOB if you went in there.
 
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