"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HA! I Met Her Again At the Same Bus Stop

bfl

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haha! remember that thread a made about that girl that i met at the bus stop and i offered her a ride and she accept it, then i called her a few days after and i posted that convo?

Well today i was on my break and i was heading to the bank to cash my check and from far away i saw a girl standing at a busstop, now the first thing that came to mind was that it was her cause it was the same busstop that i met her at and same time.
So i pull over and i tell her "wasup" she looked as if she didnt remember or knew who i was (she had that look in her face) i think its cause i got a different car now. so i said "aint u such?" she said yeah then i said " dam u forgat about me already? im such" then thats when she said oh wasup.

So i offered her a ride and the samething as the other time happened we picked up 2 of her friends then i dropped them at their destination, and as she was gettin out she said " call me later" but ofcourse im not gonna call her today but im definetly gonna call tomorrow, not like last time that i was scare and nervous and i didnt call in like a week, i dont feel that way now.

So im posting this to get some tips from my fellow dj's when i call her tomorrow, (will be tuesday) is it too early to set up a date for the weekend? And what would be the best way to approach this phone call?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bfl

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well... feedback is appreciated
 

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wasn't your last thread asking the same question?
 

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yeah but i thought that this situation was kinda different since its the 2nd time
 

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there's a thread on this. For asking out it says only sun-wed for next weekend.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PRMoon

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ugh, call her whenever you want. It really won't make all that much difference. I mean she's been in your car twice now so I'd say you were at least aquaintences. Call her, breif convo, schedule a date, hang up the phone. It isn't all that hard and If you're confident then you should have no trouble pulling it off.
 
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