"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HA! I Met Her Again At the Same Bus Stop

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haha! remember that thread a made about that girl that i met at the bus stop and i offered her a ride and she accept it, then i called her a few days after and i posted that convo?

Well today i was on my break and i was heading to the bank to cash my check and from far away i saw a girl standing at a busstop, now the first thing that came to mind was that it was her cause it was the same busstop that i met her at and same time.
So i pull over and i tell her "wasup" she looked as if she didnt remember or knew who i was (she had that look in her face) i think its cause i got a different car now. so i said "aint u such?" she said yeah then i said " dam u forgat about me already? im such" then thats when she said oh wasup.

So i offered her a ride and the samething as the other time happened we picked up 2 of her friends then i dropped them at their destination, and as she was gettin out she said " call me later" but ofcourse im not gonna call her today but im definetly gonna call tomorrow, not like last time that i was scare and nervous and i didnt call in like a week, i dont feel that way now.

So im posting this to get some tips from my fellow dj's when i call her tomorrow, (will be tuesday) is it too early to set up a date for the weekend? And what would be the best way to approach this phone call?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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well... feedback is appreciated
 

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wasn't your last thread asking the same question?
 

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yeah but i thought that this situation was kinda different since its the 2nd time
 

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there's a thread on this. For asking out it says only sun-wed for next weekend.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ugh, call her whenever you want. It really won't make all that much difference. I mean she's been in your car twice now so I'd say you were at least aquaintences. Call her, breif convo, schedule a date, hang up the phone. It isn't all that hard and If you're confident then you should have no trouble pulling it off.
 
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