"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gym work paying off or girl just drunk?

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I've been going to the gym a lot recently I went 4 days in the last week, 3 of them in a row, and I get a lot of excercise outside of the gym as well.

And looking in the mirror I like the results. I've got myself a trendy new hairstyle too.

Anyway I was working at the club tonight when 2 girls come to my counter. One of them looks at me and tells me I'm hot. While I'm serving her firend she tells me I'm hot a couple more times and then asks me to kiss her.

She then grabs my face and kisses me instead and her friend starts cheering while watching us kiss. Then they go off into the club.

That kind of thing never happens to me, this is the first time I've kissed a girl since January, do you reckon thats the results of the gym work or that she was merely very drunk by then?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The new hairstyle plus the gym is the reason.

Sure, her being drunk helps, but even drunk girls go largely by looks*.

Great job. You are absolutely on the right track.

*I really don't believe in the "beer goggle effect" on women. I don't think I've ever heard a woman say she had a drunken makeout or sex with an ugly guy. Even the most intoxicated females will focus on the hot guys.
 
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Good, I prefer the gym reason, leaves it more in my power rather than random chance.
 
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She was obviously drunk.

You said this type of thing doesn't happen often. Drunk people usually repeat everything they say and this was the case with her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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