"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gym work paying off or girl just drunk?

Eternal_water

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I've been going to the gym a lot recently I went 4 days in the last week, 3 of them in a row, and I get a lot of excercise outside of the gym as well.

And looking in the mirror I like the results. I've got myself a trendy new hairstyle too.

Anyway I was working at the club tonight when 2 girls come to my counter. One of them looks at me and tells me I'm hot. While I'm serving her firend she tells me I'm hot a couple more times and then asks me to kiss her.

She then grabs my face and kisses me instead and her friend starts cheering while watching us kiss. Then they go off into the club.

That kind of thing never happens to me, this is the first time I've kissed a girl since January, do you reckon thats the results of the gym work or that she was merely very drunk by then?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mike32ct

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The new hairstyle plus the gym is the reason.

Sure, her being drunk helps, but even drunk girls go largely by looks*.

Great job. You are absolutely on the right track.

*I really don't believe in the "beer goggle effect" on women. I don't think I've ever heard a woman say she had a drunken makeout or sex with an ugly guy. Even the most intoxicated females will focus on the hot guys.
 

Eternal_water

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Good, I prefer the gym reason, leaves it more in my power rather than random chance.
 

Ronaldo7

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She was obviously drunk.

You said this type of thing doesn't happen often. Drunk people usually repeat everything they say and this was the case with her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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