"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jetset22

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First of all thanks to all you guys. I've been getting a lot of material from here for the past few months and its golden. I was good before but it has definitely elevated my game. Now for my situation- I go work out pretty much every day and now that I work out at night I've run into a girl that works there and is about an 8 or 9 in my book. She works the front counter and sometimes walk around to pick up stray water bottles and what not. Anyway I've been noticing that when I arrive she is always smiling at me and greets me with a slightly friendlier what's up or the equivalent than she does with othe customers. I've also caught her checking me out while I work out twice before. How can I test the waters and see if she is into me without coming on too strong? Thanks guys
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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pdx1138

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Don't go there.
They are nice to everyone.

But I had something happen similar to yours, a personal trainer though....it didn't work out and she avoids me now when I'm there. I would never have tried had I thought it out more before asking her out.

Read the other threads about gaming women at the gym.
 

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I don't want to tell you to NOT ask a girl out. But there's this ongoing trend of dudes asking about how to approach the counter girl at their gym.

It's always this very specific thing. Gym counter girl. Not "girl who makes my coffee." Not, "Girl at the grocery store." It's always the front desk girl at the gym.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168444&highlight=gym

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=186930&highlight=gym

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=185381&highlight=gym

Now, here's the thing. This girl might be into you. She really might. There are no certainties with human behavior. And you won't know until you ask her out. But damn, so many dudes falling for the chick at the gym counter.
 
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