"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jetset22

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First of all thanks to all you guys. I've been getting a lot of material from here for the past few months and its golden. I was good before but it has definitely elevated my game. Now for my situation- I go work out pretty much every day and now that I work out at night I've run into a girl that works there and is about an 8 or 9 in my book. She works the front counter and sometimes walk around to pick up stray water bottles and what not. Anyway I've been noticing that when I arrive she is always smiling at me and greets me with a slightly friendlier what's up or the equivalent than she does with othe customers. I've also caught her checking me out while I work out twice before. How can I test the waters and see if she is into me without coming on too strong? Thanks guys
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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pdx1138

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Don't go there.
They are nice to everyone.

But I had something happen similar to yours, a personal trainer though....it didn't work out and she avoids me now when I'm there. I would never have tried had I thought it out more before asking her out.

Read the other threads about gaming women at the gym.
 

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I don't want to tell you to NOT ask a girl out. But there's this ongoing trend of dudes asking about how to approach the counter girl at their gym.

It's always this very specific thing. Gym counter girl. Not "girl who makes my coffee." Not, "Girl at the grocery store." It's always the front desk girl at the gym.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168444&highlight=gym

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=186930&highlight=gym

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=185381&highlight=gym

Now, here's the thing. This girl might be into you. She really might. There are no certainties with human behavior. And you won't know until you ask her out. But damn, so many dudes falling for the chick at the gym counter.
 
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