First of all thanks to all you guys. I've been getting a lot of material from here for the past few months and its golden. I was good before but it has definitely elevated my game. Now for my situation- I go work out pretty much every day and now that I work out at night I've run into a girl that works there and is about an 8 or 9 in my book. She works the front counter and sometimes walk around to pick up stray water bottles and what not. Anyway I've been noticing that when I arrive she is always smiling at me and greets me with a slightly friendlier what's up or the equivalent than she does with othe customers. I've also caught her checking me out while I work out twice before. How can I test the waters and see if she is into me without coming on too strong? Thanks guys
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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