"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gym Help

loc2dabrain

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Alright guys so im about to get a membership to a gym. I have decided this summer that i wanna lose alot of my weight i just wanna feel healthier and look better so heres where i need the help. I have no idea what kinda stuff at the gym is most effective to lose weight. Ive gone a few times to a gym with a friend and i just basically did anything because i didnt really take it seriously but im basically a total nub at it lol. So anyone know what i should be doing and how long i should be at the gym ill appreciate it alot i think im gonna try to go daily maybe take a day off a week i really dont know what i should be doin so any help is much appreciated. And should i be taking anything before or after like i really dont know anything to be effective my friend keeps tellin me about this muscle milk stuff i should be takin but i dont even know if that for me yet or what cuz i think that makes your gain weight not lose i dunno thanks ahead of time for any help you can give me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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EFFORT

Master Don Juan
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Your just looking to lose fat? If thats all then eat 6 healthy meals a day, stop eating carbs after lunch and eat protein/fat meals. Go to the gym in the morning 5days a week and do some moderate intensity cardio.


If your looking have muscle too its a different story.
 

loc2dabrain

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My main concern is to lose most of my weight right now and then gain some muscle after but like what should i be doing then like and hour of running or what . Thats what im not sure about since i havent ever really been to much into gyms.
 

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an hour of low-mod walking is good , 5-6days a week
 
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